Yesterday we looked at the needs of a husband. It’s only natural that he go first since he has the God-given responsibility of leadership. The corresponding list for wives is equally as enlightening and is sure to fill your marriage with fulfillment and light.
- A wife needs the stability and direction of a spiritual leader.
- A wife needs to know that she is meeting vital needs in her husband’s life and work that no other woman can meet.
- A wife needs to see and hear that her husband cherishes her and that he delights in her as a person.
- A wife needs to know that her husband understands her by protecting her in areas of her limitations.
- A wife needs to know that her husband enjoys setting aside quality time for intimate conversation with her.
- A wife needs to know that her husband is aware of her presence even when his mind is on other matters.
- A wife needs to see that he is making investments in her life that will expand and fulfill her world.
These teachings come to us from the “Know the Way” series and are the basis for the Mrs. Duggar’s highly publicized needs of a husband.
Please take special note of the of the helpful tips and explanations in the above link. They will help guide you to understand the importance of these seven needs.
